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Neither.

Depends on who is doing the telling. Reverse psychology has a way of sneaking about.

Both.

No!

*Either/*or

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Use your own best judgement.

"If it is to be, it's up to me!"

There is only one person you can trust, or rely on, and that is YOU

There's always something in between two options.

You do what you believe to be the best thing in the situation

Hmm should I answer question or should I not?

Depends on wether what they are telling you to do is for your own good or not and wether you trust them.

well, Men always do the opposite of what they are being asked to do, don't they?

Your life is your responsibility, not someone else's, so you should take responsibility for it by considering all the pro's and con's, and any advice offered, then make up your own mind.

If you're capable of making up your own mind as a reasonable person, then neither, surely? Don't categorically do the opposite 'just because' but only do as someone tells you if you can't make up your own mind (from an emotional state or illness) or if it's sterling advice!