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Is Rape the worst crime?

by joebangles @ 2008-05-15 - 11:10:35

A lifetime behind bars, is considered by most people as being the rightful sentence for anyone that commits murder, that is usually the crime that receives the longest prison sentence handed down by the courts.

I contend that a far greater crime is committed in the case of rape and this should be considered as worthy of a life sentence as murder.

Of course, the murdered person is dead, and usually leaves behind grieving family, but, the person that has been raped remains to live for the rest of their life carrying the pains of the memory of that occasion, the victim, the innocent party, is the one that often carries the life sentence, and this, where the victim of the rape is a child, can be for the next 70 years


 
 

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deleted user [Visitor]

2008-05-15 @ 11:42

yes, sentances are too short it and I include man on man rape in that comment, something sadly not spoken of enough, it should also be treated as a war crime as well as it is increasingly used to dehumanise and terrorise.

joebanglesjoebangles [Member]
2008-05-15 @ 17:14

Yes mermaidstale. I had overlooked the fact that it does happen often in wars, and always has done, I was thinking more about rape as occurs far to often in our cities and towns throughout the UK.

I can only presume that it is written down somewhere as a war crime but can not recollect ever reading of anyone being charged with it.

SeasideManSeasideMan pro
2008-05-15 @ 12:10

Murder remains the worse crime and should keep the longest sentence. Some rape sentences do seem unduly short though.

Tom.

joebanglesjoebangles [Member]
2008-05-15 @ 17:18

Hello SeasideMan, if I had asked the question in different words and specifically written the "rape of a child" where there is often a life time of consequences would your reply have been any different?

SeasideManSeasideMan pro
2008-05-15 @ 17:24

No, absolutely not. The worst thing you can do to someone is to take their life or their children's life away. While life remains, there is always hope of a return to relative normality. Some raped people get over it and some don't, so there is always a chance that a rapee will recover. That's not the same with a murder.

Tom.

joebanglesjoebangles [Member]
2008-05-18 @ 20:44

Take your point Tom, can we agree on "just as bad" and worthy of a life sentence.

SeasideManSeasideMan pro
2008-05-18 @ 21:26

A life sentence is very often justified, yes. But I do think it's important that judges have discretion.

Tom.

No. Plotting and planning to take a life is worse than rape. Rape sentences do need to be longer though.

joebanglesjoebangles [Member]
2008-05-15 @ 17:21

Hello soyunperdedor, surely the same, or even more, planning goes into the rapists actions and leave a life time of consequences for the person that has been raped?

Rape doesn't have to be pre-meditated though, does it? (Neither does murder for that matter). I would consider most rape cases are the result of a sudden urge that is rejected by the victim, but subsequently forced.

Rape issues can also be overcome. Some victims are able to move on and live a normal life. Not everyone is instantly subject to a life of emotional trauma. I can say that because I have a friend who was sexually assaulted some years ago at a party and she gave herself the choice of letting it ruin her life of making her reassess the important things in her life. Of course she is not thankful for it to have taken place, but it has, in a perverse way, made her improve aspects of her life and self.

Please don't mistake me for thinking that rape is not a terrible, terrible crime - of course it is. I just fail see how it can be a worse crime than taking the life of another.

trevor downer [Visitor]
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2008-05-16 @ 09:35

Hi soyunperdedor, yes, I do agree that there are degrees of badness in cases of rape and of course some victims can come to terms with that rape, but consider those that are very young and the cases of rape where the victim is very old, these victims live daily with the terrors of that attack as opposed to the victim of a murder where, terrible as it is, the victim is dead and therefor has no more feelings.

Nor do they have a life! Thy have no hope of ever coming to comes with the fact that someone took their life, because they are dead! Whereas psychological treatment on the young, old, or rape victims of any age, can have an amazing effect.

I cannot see, and will never be able to see, how it is better for a child to be murdered than raped, to have had their lives taken, leaving a gap in the lives of their parents and family, which will affect them for years after as well. A rape victim has a chance of healing, a dead person does not. I do not wish to sound overly dramatic by saying that, but I fail to see how it is better to be murdered than raped.

joebanglesjoebangles [Member]
2008-05-18 @ 20:50

Hi soyunperdedor, no, neither is better of course and I take the point that you make. This has made an interesting question and answer subject, can we agree that both are just as bad and are worthy of a life sentence.

I will agree they both need a life sentence.

In my world of "zero tolerance" the maxim "an eye for an eye" holds good. The severity of a crime depends on the intentions of the perpetrator coupled with the effect on the victim and their family.
Rape can sometimes be the result of a date that went wrong, and while that is no less a crime it is surely not quite as serious as a premeditated abduction and systematic repeated violent rape under threat of death. The latter should incur a life sentence. And life should mean life, not a few years cushy holiday from the outside world with all modern comforts.

joebanglesjoebangles [Member]
2008-05-15 @ 17:30

Hello grumpus, I do of course accept that there are extenuating circumstances in many cases of rape, I don't think that there are ever any excuses. No means no.

In all cases where there are children raped, or, the victim was unknown to the rapist, leaving victims that are most often affected for life, a penalty of a lifetime of imprisonment seems to be the obvious sentence.

SloshedAndVexedSloshedAndVexed pro
2008-05-15 @ 22:40

Well done for being brave enough to initiate a debate on such an emotive issue .
I must say that the circumstances do make a difference , i.e there's obvious differences between a woman who changes her mind two seconds before penetration , and 'date-rape' where the boundaries are blurred , and vicious , violent rape by a stranger .
Male and female jurors are traditionally reluctant to convict alleged rapists where the circumstances seem ambiguous .
I definitely think that some rapists / abusers should be incarcerated at least until they are too old and frail to be a danger to anyone .
But we have juries , magistrates and Judges not only to determine guilt but also to decide upon an appropiate sentence based on the individual circumstances .
As someone else here pointed out , some - adult or child- victims of sexual assault and / or rape are able to sufficiently recover enough to be able to lead 'normal' enough lives , others are not , and , while child or adult victims deserve all the support and therapy that they need , it should'nt be assumed that the rest of their lives have necessarily been ruined , and obviously there's a difference between a 'one-off' assault , and being subjected to years of abuse .
And it should'nt be forgotten that some men imprisoned for rape have had to be released following definitive proof that they could'nt have done it , and/or their accuser having admitted that she lied .
There is legal anonymity for alleged victims of rape even if they eventually admit having lied , but not for alleged perpetrators , even if they are found to be not guilty .
It's the same with murder in the sense that : How can you compare a loving spouse who helps their terminally ill , suffering wife or husband to die with someone who sadistically kills someone ' for kicks ' .
And then there's the question of : What to do with someone found guilty of downloading illegal photo's of children , whether thay be 'innocent' naturist beach pictures or horrifying ones of kids being sickeningly abused - If there's no evidence of their having physically abused any child .
Of course if they've paid for the sickening images they are supporting the wicked abuse , but if they've not paid for them , and if they themselves were victims when they were children - -
I'm not seeking to excuse anything that's wrong , I'm just pointing out how individual circumstances can vary .

joebanglesjoebangles [Member]
2008-05-18 @ 20:55

Hi S & V, a great comment that you made. I do tend to post questions that I hope others will read the comments and lead to more thinking about that subject, to learn the point of view of others.

You have raised some points that need to be posted as questions.

Thanks.

SloshedAndVexedSloshedAndVexed pro
2008-05-18 @ 22:32

Thanks Trevor , all the best , - Martin .

DominicGeeDominicGee [Member]
2008-05-20 @ 17:10

Rape is an horrific crime but like for like it can't be treated as serious as taking someone's life, i.e. a man raping a woman is not as serious as a man murdering a woman. As pointed out above there are individual cases that call for different punishments.

skellyskelly [Member]
2008-05-20 @ 22:12

The biggest part of the debate for me is that prison holds no fear for criminals anymore. It should be a place that people fear to go. I recall it was Scottish judges that first set precedents under the UK Convention on Human Rights for prisoners (Like saying they should not have to slop out etc.). People who take others rights (like murder, rape etc) do not deserve to retain their own.

joebanglesjoebangles [Member]
2008-05-20 @ 23:01

Well said skelly, I do feel that the judges were only making a decision based on the Human Rights that were agreed and accepted by politicians, the same politicians that tell the judges what penalty's they can hand down to the guilty.

ranfuchsranfuchs pro
2008-05-25 @ 15:48

like not all murders are equal so are rapes. Raping a young girl on the street, is very different to a date rape where borders can be murky.

Any generalisation is dangerous

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